12 Ways to Flourish
Learn how to bloom and thrive in your life.
Flourishing is “when people experience positive emotions, positive psychological functioning, and positive social functioning, most of the time.” That means that flourishing encompasses many feelings, activities, and thoughts that make people feel happy and complete.
Flourishing includes positive emotions, mental and physical health, meaning and purpose in life, close relationships, and often virtues like wisdom, courage, and kindness. Flourishing is similar to the idea of having optimal well-being.
Try these strategies to help yourself flourish.
Gratitude journals (writing down things in life you are grateful for) have been found to increase several aspects of flourishing. Other gratitude exercises can be done with a friend or romantic partner.
Developing healthy relationships is one of the best things we can do to flourish. That’s because social connection is sometimes thought to be the most important determinant of our health and happiness. For example, social connection has been shown to be one of the strongest predictors of mortality. That’s why investing in our relationships is so important.
Savoring does not just refer to how one appreciates the taste of a meal—one can savor positive experiences by thinking about happy events, sharing or celebrating something good with others, and paying more attention to positive emotional experiences. These savoring exercises have been shown to improve happiness.
Thinking about your ideal life or the best possible version of yourself in the future can increase happiness, life satisfaction, and optimism, important elements of flourishing.
“Be a diamond. Flourish under pressure.”
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Doing things you wouldn’t normally do to help others or be kind has positive effects on multiple aspects of flourishing, like happiness and positive emotions. These acts can even inspire others to do the same.
Volunteering, like acts of kindness, can help you flourish by providing a sense of social connection, purpose, happiness, and well-being.
Inauthenticity can occur when we focus too much on meeting other people’s expectations. To be happier, we need to make sure our actions represent us. Once we are being ourselves, we can flourish more easily.
If we don’t like ourselves much, we can struggle to flourish. By getting clear and knowing your worth, you can start to feel better about yourself and your life. Practicing things like self-compassion and reversing negative self-talk are good places to start.
One theory suggests that our core psychological needs are autonomy, competence, and relatedness. Autonomy is the sense that we can choose our direction in life. Competence is the sense that we are effectively using our capabilities. Relatedness involves feeling socially connected to important others. According to Basic Needs Theory, these are the main things we need to feel happy and fulfilled.
Setting meaningful life goals and working towards these goals can help us flourish. Why? Well, simply setting and working towards goals can help us better understand what really matters to us so that we can pursue meaning more easily.
Going to therapy for mental health or marital counseling is a great way to help you flourish. Multiple kinds of therapy have been found to have positive impacts on mental health and relationships.
There is actually a lot of evidence that believing in something makes it more likely to come about. Our positive expectations actually do help lead us to positive outcomes. So try to be optimistic about your ability to flourish.
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